Thursday, October 04, 2007

Evening at French Creek

Paddling French Creek, I had a wildlife show unfolding all the time.


A little yellow-rumped warbler dawdled around on a black willow overhead, showing me its buttery badonkadonk. Also puttering around in the gallery forest: bay-breasted and magnolia warblers, white-eyed vireos, Carolina wrens, blue jays, flickers and robins.

I found a lovely painted turtle (Chrysemys picta) who seemed not to fear me at all

and a musk turtle (Sternotherus odoratus) who was so alarmed at my approach that he tipped off his basking perch on a dead tulip limb, landed on his back and scrabbled frantically over and into the water. See that pointy nose and rounded dome of a shell? That's a stinkpot. I like them. I'm sure that in Buck's book they're good for nothing (see below).

When I'd done the entire perimeter of the embayment, almost a three-hour paddle, I was about to turn for the boatlaunch when I saw some animals on the shore. The cutest little grulla pony with a smeared strip of a blaze came up to check me out. I don't think she'd seen a one-man canoe before, and the waving paddles intrigued her. She blew and stamped like a deer. The cow with the moon and stars on her flank was less intrigued, and turned her back on me.

Finally it was time to turn for home. There was a man fishing on the boat launch, and he moved his lines so I could cruise in. When I finally came close enough to see, his face broke into a smile. "Oh! A pretty woman!" he said. He grabbed the bow of my canoe and pulled me in so I wouldn't get my feet wet getting out. What a nice man. We talked for a bit and he said, "I like to come down here. It's peaceful. I lost my wife exactly four years and nine months ago today."

"Not that you're counting, huh?"

"What?"

"I said, you're still counting, huh?"

"Yeah. You count for awhile."

His name was Buck and he quickly added that he felt lucky because he had two grown children and two grandchildren living nearby, and they were "the light of my life."

He seemed lonely and he knew a lot about this place so I decided to hang out with him for awhile. I learned from him that there are both soft-shelled (Good for nothing! Can't even eat 'em!) and hard-shelled (snapping) turtles in the embayment. That there are channel cats upward of 40 lb. here. Muskellunge too. He showed me a lure he'd had for 30 years, all beat up, almost broken, that's been his best muskie lure. I told him I'd hit three huge carp with the canoe in the shallowest part of the embayment, and they were big enough to rock the boat. Durn carp. I told him about the drake wood duck I'd heard stumbling through the leaves on a steep slope above the water. I figured he had been looking for acorns and beechnuts until I scared him into flight. I had thought I was hearing a turkey because it sounded like a biped, but it sounded too clumsy for a turkey, so I waited on it and darned if it wasn't a duck walking through the leaves!

Buck said he always brings an extra rod and reel in case someone comes down and feels like fishing for awhile with him. And there it lay, ready to go. I felt bad leaving him, he was interesting and sweet and I didn't even mind his cigarette smoke that much. He asked me why I was carrying my stuff and canoe way up to the car, why didn't I just back the car down the ramp and pick it up? I told him I don't like backing down a steep ramp when I can't see what's behind me and I don't mind carrying everything because it was only two trips and the canoe only weighs 28 pounds and could he tell me why a man always needs to tell a woman a better way to do things? At that he laughed and said "I guess we do, don't we?"

I told him I'd be back again, and that I'd be glad to see him, and I think he'll be glad to see me, too.

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20 Comments:

At 5:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

If that isn't the sweetest exchange. So good for both of you to take the moments to have such a conversation.

It sure beats the fighting lovers that Susan keeps running into at her birding spot!

From that angle, he looks like my Dad ("Pop"). Hope you get to share some fishing time with him soon.

Heather
Wayne, PA

 
At 5:32 PM, Blogger Rondeau Ric said...

I'm glad you spent time with an old feller, it was time well spent and Buck probably has a lot of interesting stories and opinions.

 
At 6:48 PM, Blogger possumlady said...

Now you've made me cry. Bringing an extra rod in case someone wants to fish with him (sniff). I think those of us who have lost our dads have a special affection for older guys like that. I hope you get a chance to chat with him again.

 
At 8:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lovely story, Julie.
But what is this obscure scientific term "badonkadonk"?? Do you mean the bird's "bum-bum", or "heinny", or "be-hind"? Am I on the right track??

 
At 9:30 PM, Blogger LauraHinNJ said...

So you're a country music fan then?

;-)

Nice story. Thanks for sharing it.

 
At 10:13 PM, Blogger Julie Zickefoose said...

Badonkadonk. Junk in the trunk. Warbler's got back.

I am soooo hip with my bad street-talkin' self.

Laura, you of the little winky-wink emoticon, "Honky-tonk Badonkadonk" was a Johnny-come-lately. I first heard the term on the long-expired Chapelle Show on Comedy Central. I practically had to wear a diaper when I watched that show. Bill was, I believe, the first to employ the term to describe a Cape May warbler's "lemon-lime badonkadonk," and I stole it from him, as he steals Science Chimp factoids (they are legion) from me. We're a good team.

Ever been to a rodeo at Cowtown, fellow country music fan?

 
At 10:42 PM, Anonymous joyce said...

Awwww, I love it that you took some time to talk. A very sweet story. I hope you run into him again.

 
At 10:57 PM, Blogger catbird said...

It's amazing how enriching a little kindness can be. You likely reminded Buck that he's still good company - to a pretty woman, to boot. Last year, I met a wonderful guy in the infusion center (at a hospital in Philly where I'm a monthly patient) who told me about his time in the Pacific in World War II. I think my job that day was to just be there and listen, but I think I got more out of meeting Nate and hearing his story than he did in telling it.

(One of my birding buddies, a Brit, told me he was taking his Aussie squeeze to Cowtown. Would that I had been there.)

 
At 5:16 AM, Blogger cyberthrush said...

sweet story, sweet place... one of the joys of birding is not only never knowing ahead of time just what birds you may see, but never knowing just what other encounters may be had along the way.
And as to "badonkadonk"... well, one of the joys of reading JZ is never knowing what word or turn-of-phrase you will encounter that you've never seen before!!

 
At 8:01 AM, Blogger KGMom said...

I always enjoy your stories, but this one touched me to the core. While I have not lost my life partner, I saw the grieving my dad went (heck, still goes) through following my mom's death. Deep deep grieving. Even though he has now remarried (and I love my step-mom) he grieves in quiet ways. When I see him, he will talk about my mom--something I hope he does not do with my step-mom.
Life goes on, and with it the pain of loss.

 
At 8:04 AM, Blogger dguzman said...

You're such a good soul, Julie.

Cowtown! My old stomping grounds, Fort Worth. Sigh. Some people have good breeding, some people have family money, and some people have the fact that they're native Texans. My heart swells with pride.

 
At 8:06 AM, Blogger Mary said...

Lucky Buck meet Pretty Woman. What a sweet man. The way you tell this story breaks my heart for him. I hope you see him again and shoot the breeze for a while.

 
At 1:44 PM, Blogger littleorangeguy said...

You sure are in a reflective mood these days. Is that autumn at work?

 
At 2:05 PM, Blogger Julie Zickefoose said...

Yeah, I guess so. Autumn always brings on this kind of deep thought for me. Preparing for the long gray winter days, trying to let go of the gardens and hummingbirds (there was still one hanging around today!) It truly is a season of beauty and loss, a lowering of expectations. I walk around with a lump in my throat half the time, knocked over by the beautiful skies and light slanting, the flocks of migrants that will soon be gone for what feels like forever.

But don't worry. There are some pretty silly Chetposts in the can, too, if that was a subtle way of saying LIGHTEN UP!! ;-)

 
At 2:27 PM, Blogger littleorangeguy said...

Nah, I'm not that subtle!! I am really enjoying what you are writing these days. I had my own amazing and reflection-inducing experience last week, when I spied two bald eagles on the Pugwash River in Nova Scotia. One of them parked itself in a tree, and when I pointed it out to the 10 year old I was traveling with, she was transfixed. I'm not sure what was better: the bird, or my young friend's reaction.

Anyhoo -- like I said way back when, Chet Baker brought me here but your thoughtful writing keeps me here.

 
At 9:25 PM, Blogger Mary said...

Julie, your last comment rings true with me on all counts. It's a gloriously tough time of year.

 
At 11:23 PM, Blogger catbird said...

Hey, dguzman, I had no idea there was another Cowtown! The one I referred to is in, of all places, New Jersey.

 
At 10:28 PM, Blogger Susan Gets Native said...

Bring some bait with you next time you paddle down French Creek, girl. I want to hear Buck's stories.

Will everyone cheer up, for goodness sake?
It's bringing down my Cape May High.

 
At 10:30 PM, Blogger April said...

Fall is awesome here..record highs today and yesterday AND thousands and thousands and thousands of grackles migrating through. The trees were alive with them! I'll see some of them next spring, I'm not worried!

They were so numerous that it would take the flock 10 minutes to fly past. Now I know one iota of what the people who saw the passenger pigeons saw. They commandeer all my bird feeders.

The Chapelle show was hysterical..so sad it's gone.

 
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